Hey friends! Welcome to our fourth installment of “Who are the people on your Patreon?”. Thank you for joining us today and taking a moment to read about another one of my esteemed members on here.

I am so excited to introduce this spicy business woman and captivating friend, Kendra Holliday. I first met Kendra over 15 years ago through friends when she wrote her infamous sex blog, The Beautiful Kind.

Kendra is a sex and relationship consultant, surrogate partner, and offers hands-on intimacy services.

Without further ado… Kendra Holliday

Fifteen + years ago, I started a sex blog called The Beautiful Kind. Readers would ask to pick my brain about topics relevant to sex, so I decided to charge $60/hr. for consultations. Now I charge $200/hr.! I became self-employed in 2015 and am a hardworking lady of leisure. 😉 I have a background in healthcare and can straight cath, sound, and give an incredible prostate massage. I take penetrating other people very seriously. I’m also passionate about mental illness and dementia.

I was born 3/23/73 – 3 is my magic number. 🙂 I’m an INFJ and my ACE score is 6.

I live a rich and beautiful life and am 100% independent. I’m the proud owner of a little fairy cottage. I live with my sweetest little familiar cat, Stellaluna.

My creative outlets are sex, writing, building LEGOs. I collect lots of things – local art, sock monkeys, miniatures, PEZ dispensers… I love oddities and whimsies. I have a dollhouse and a grandfather clock (I’m interested in horology.) Halloween is my favorite holiday.

I love color, cemeteries, museums, trees, birds, nature, charming architecture, old libraries and college campuses and exploring new things. I’m a voracious reader (history, science, woowoo, children’s books, fiction) and I used to be a children’s book expert. I love classical music. My fave musicians are Queen, Sinead O’Connor, Iron and Wine, Okkervil River, and Leonard Cohen. Some of my fave movies are Tombstone, Thelma and Louise, and Brokeback Mountain.

I fancy myself a wise woman, wannabe witch, and glorious goddess. I love to travel, but don’t like driving. I love ethnic food. I love old things and am very sentimental and romantic. I don’t like bright lights, big crowds, loud noises.

I’m bisexual and a member of The Satanic Temple and consider myself a Humanist. I don’t have any tattoos. I’m comfortably in the crone zone. I co-founded Sex Positive St Louis in 2010. I’m a nudist. I love body hair; hairy chests are my fav! I try walking 6-10,000 steps a day.

I love dressing up and adorning my body with sparkly jewelry, shawls, flowing dresses and flower crowns. I don’t like jeans, aka “hard pants.”

One time, I signed up for a belly dance class with Ami and I faceplanted on the sidewalk as I rushed to get there – “bitches be trippin'”… on that uneven sidewalk! I bled all over the place and took it as a sign that I’m not a dancer.

Some of my mottos are “Be open and honest,” “Think outside the cage” and “Replace the fear with love.”

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I really love what Kendra is doing and support her work. I am a big supporter of other women and believe that sex work is work. I further got to know Kendra when I approached Sex+ StL in 2012 about teaching a monthly clothing-optional yoga class at my studio as an act of rebellion and body positivity. Kendra and I have a lot of overlapping circles and I love it!

I have been to Kendra’s little cottage of magick and can personally attest to her whimsy, witchy vibes, and have seen first-hand her lovely collection of oddities and curiosities, Polly Pockets, Pez, bones, and more. Seriously, she could charge an admission

I also remember the year Kendra faceplanted outside my apartment on the sidewalk when I was teaching on Cherokee! That was nearly a decade ago, I was so worried about her.

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